break prejudice
Nothing helps dispel myths about who owns a sex doll more than your own actions and interactions with your significant other. If you’re loving, hands-on in bed and elsewhere, supportive, and are the “sex doll type” your partner has.

choose the right partner
Whether you have a luxury sex doll that you want to keep using or other preferences, compatibility is very important. Your partner doesn’t need to be obsessed with lifelike sex doll, but it can be helpful if they’re open to all kinds of kinks.

become the right partner
Of course, this all requires your support and an open mind. Of course, you have to support their fantasies and tastes, but that’s not all. Whether or not your partner accepts your preferences, and whether or not they feel safe expressing their desires, your attitude toward various quirks really matters. Do not mock or ridicule eccentricities and fantasies, no matter who expresses them.

anticipation problem
Your partner may ask you some questions. They may be angry. This is not the time to be defensive or critical. It’s perfectly normal for them to wonder if you like sex dolls more than they do, find sex dolls more attractive, or if this is a form of deception.

Open without hurting yourself. Of course, you shouldn’t say that your sex doll is more attractive to you, even if that’s true. All you can say is that you think your partner is absolutely amazing. But dolls represent a bit of fantasy to you.

Also be honest about how and why you use sex dolls. You can explain to them that if you have a stronger sex drive than your partner, you don’t want to force them to have sex. Dolls are essentially sex toys used for sexual satisfaction.

Keep going
Hope your significant other does, even if they don’t. Some prefer the invisible, giving them free rein to use their silicone love doll, while others cannot see or know the details. It’s good that you can accept this. Some people need more enthusiastic help. If this is you, it’s time to decide how to proceed.

Your partner may be enthusiastic about the idea of a real doll. They might be interested in a “threesome,” or just want to see you demonstrate. Their enthusiasm is high, but your comfort is just as important. Sharing your sex doll is great. It’s up to you.

positive!
You probably don’t want your partner to trip over your plush sex doll or “catch” you on the spot. This is the area where secrecy and surprises make things worse. If your partner really doesn’t want to know about your doll, you need to save it so they can’t find it. If not, you should probably make a plan to start this important conversation. A supportive partner who won’t laugh at or judge you. They might even see your sex doll as a way to enhance their relationship.